Steve Is Home!
Thursday, September 30th, 2010It was a grueling 3-flight journey from Mary and Thomas’ home to mine, but Steve and I made it in pretty good shape. We are, however, pretty bushed.
One thing that was very special and very touching to me happened about halfway during our 2nd leg – and the longest at 4 hours. Airline regulations stipulate that you must keep the pet inside its carrier at all times and under the seat in front of you. Since Steve was obviously carefully planning a break-out from his carrier (he’d already chewed open a corner), I brought his carrier onto my lap, whereupon Steve rubbed his head against the stainless steel mesh, soliciting a head rub. (For anyone not familiar, a parrot soliciting a rub to its head is being extremely trusting – it is a most vulnerable part of the parrot’s body and only trusted birds or humans are allowed to “preen.”)
I thought, “Wow! Can this be happening?” I zipped open a corner of his carrier, inserted my hand, and began rubbing his head. Steve fluffed up and just melted. He became very soft and vulnerable. He wouldn’t let my hand go for the rest of the flight. Any time I had to withdraw my hand, he’d gently tap it with his beak, his way of asking me not to stop. I felt humbled by his trust and his decision to be vulnerable. I guess his need for the sense of touch and belonging overcame his nervousness. I doubt that his first owner ever rubbed his head.
While we waited for 2 hours for my last short flight, head rubs were still wanted. I felt so happy for Steve about this leap forward! And to Mary and Thomas, deep thanks for saving this guy from being euthanized, giving him such a wonderful chance, and bringing him to a point of such amazing progress that he could be sent to me. I’m so grateful.















